not bring other people into our arguments
not “survey” because it has that effect
not unilaterally bring in a third party even if the
third party is the subject of discussion
What to do about being unhappy and wanting to
talk about one’s troubles with someone?
b) check out 12-step programs available locally
One party says “I’m declaring an emergency.”
The situation is immediately interrupted, and the
argument is tabled until the next meeting.
The next meeting is scheduled as soon as possible,
but not within a three hour cooling off period.
The meeting is held on the single subject only.